While driving through Macon, Georgia on the way to
Florida I ended up staying at a hotel. I began talking to a lady who worked at
the hotel and of course the conversation moved to her kids and school. I wish I had picked up my phone and recorded
her voice or videoed her…she was quite passionate about her kids and school. She had been a teenage mom and on her own
since seventeen. She now has three kids
and works hard to provide for them. She
stated that she continually communicates with teachers. She calls teachers and checks on her kids
just to see how they are doing. If she
gets a call from the teacher stating that things are not going well she stops
by the school and checks in.
She said she can’t believe parents that never show
their face at school. “Parents need to
stay involved. Teachers cannot do it
alone. Teachers are there “at school” to
teach. It is up to me, the parent, to
make sure my kids do what they are supposed to”.
My comment to her was, “But some parents work and
some have had a bad experience at school and really feel uncomfortable.” Her response, “So, you became a parent. You are responsible for another human
being. You still need to check on your
child make sure they are doing what they are supposed to do while they are at
school so that they can be successful.
It’s up to the parent not to the teacher to make sure my child
succeeds.”
She continued, “Parents who drop kids off the first
day of school and you never see them again until the last day of school are not
taking care of their children’s education.
Then you have the parent who doesn’t come in the school EVER and when
their child’s grades are bad they are at the school cussing out the
teacher. Where have they been before
that bad grade? The teacher can’t do it
all, you have to be involved. My kid’s
make good grades because I am strict and I am involved. Bed time 8:00, dinner together, and we go
through homework nightly. If I have
questions…I call the teacher….I stay involved.”
She explained, “There are many ways to be involved
at my kid’s school. There are lots of
programs and of course there are government programs ready to help….use it!!!!
Our school has programs for parents all the time and they don’t come.” I asked her, why she thought parents didn’t
participate in these programs. “Because
they are comfortable where they are, they know nothing different, and they
can’t see the “big picture” of what is available for them…..We try to educate
them, but they don’t want it. You don’t
know what you want when you don’t know what there is."
"I am going to stay involved, check on my kids, call
the teachers, and help my children get an education. It is not up to the schools and the
teachers…..it’s up to me."
This parent is involved, she is communicating with
the teacher and the school, but what about all the other parents out there that
are not? Make a Positive Phone Call Home
and hopefully make a difference in a child’s life.